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Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson (Scribe) The Whole-Brain Child
Twelve practical strategies for tantrums and big feelings, explained through how children's brains develop.
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When your toddler's feelings arrive faster than their words, this short book gives you a way to understand what is happening and what to do next. The authors explain, in plain language, why young children melt down, and offer twelve strategies — such as connecting first and redirecting once your child is calm, and naming a feeling to help settle it — with cartoons you can stick on the fridge. It is short and readable. Caution: it rests on one framework, a simplified brain-based model; reviews tend to describe it rather than test the evidence behind each strategy. It suits toddlers to primary school more than babies.
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Pros
- Short and practical
- Clear examples from everyday meltdowns
- Fridge-sheet summaries
Cons
- Simplified brain science
- More useful from toddlerhood on
- US examples
Who it suits
- Parents of toddlers and preschoolers facing big feelings
Who should look elsewhere
- Parents of young babies looking for sleep or feeding help
Price
$20–30
Typically $23–$30 at our last check (8 Nov 2026). Prices change — check the retailer.
Specs
| Author | Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson |
|---|---|
| Publisher | Scribe Publications |
| Edition | 2012 |
| Isbn | 9781921844775 |
| Pages | 192 |
| Format | paperback |
| Who its for | Parents of toddlers to school-age children who want calm, practical scripts |
| Caution | Built around one brain-based framework, simplified for parents. |
What to look for
- ISBN 9781921844775 (Australian Scribe paperback)
Where to buy in Australia
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